Thursday, November 17, 2011

contentment

The two basic components of happiness are contentment and lack of fear. But what is contentment? Contentment is often described as 'lack of desire', which is fine, but does that mean it's not possible to be happy if you have desires? Happiness is about contentment at every turn in life - content with the imperfections in life, content with your plans for the future and current activities, content with the desires you have and with the possibility that you may not fulfill all your current desires, content that life throws challenges, content that you gave it your best shot even if it didn’t work out, content that you will handle whatever life throws at you... This kind of contentment comes from a perspective, a realization, that there is a higher game in life beyond the daily ups and downs. Happiness is not an 'all-or-nothing' experience and neither is contentment.

sex

“Class, the most commonly reported form of abusive sibling incest is abuse between an older brother and a younger brother or sister. According to a study by Floyd Martinson, 10–15% of college students reported childhood sexual experiences with a brother or sister, mostly fondling of genitals rather than actual sexual intercourse. Of those, 30% reported negative reactions and 30% reported positive reactions; 25% of the reported experiences involved coercion and there was a correlation of coercion with the negative responses…”

- pag-ibig -

Love was never meant to be a one-way street. Darating ang panahon na magsasawa ka. Magigising ka nalang isang araw, pagod ka na umasa. Bahala ka na diyan. Kakapagod ka. Goodbye! 'Cause you're not actually "loving", you're just testing your patience. Kung hanggang saan mo kayang magtiis. Love is patient pero hanggang kailan ba dapat magtiis? Kailan mo ba dapat ipa-realize sa sarili mo na, you gave enough chance already. If things aren't working, go! Leave. Kumbaga sa appliances, sinubukan mong ma-repair pero di na kaya. Kaya huwag nang ipilit. Diretso junk shop nalang. Love is supposed to make you happy and it's not supposed to hurt. Otherwise, it's not love. Akala mo lang, or worse, pinipilit mo lang. O baka nag-iilusyon ka lang.

swarovski crystals christmas tree



 WINTER  , spring , summer  or fall


cold breeze .. winter jackets .. boots .. skating .. skiing ..  etc .. 
i can feel christmas anywhere ... 
time for recieving and giving gifts from others ,, 
but lets not forget the true/real meaning of 
christmas 
the birth of our savior  CHRIST .. 

Friday, November 11, 2011

my life in canada

wow 1 i cant believe im ardy 1 year here in canada . last year july 28 2o1o 
i arrived here .. got no friends .. got nothing .. only at home chatting whatever . eating 
mcdonalds .. 1 of my friend at LA told me for my first three months ill be cryin or what ... 
coz ill miss philippines of course  but then its not true i didnt cry or what ..  i just tattooed  on my mind that
my future is here and i need to be strong .. 

.. my mom left me when i was 2 years old to go abroad , so its like `15 or 16 years that im not with my mom .. 
my birthday . her birthday , Christmas , graduation or any important occasions in my life .
she's was a hard working single mother 
in able to go give all what i want coz im the only son 
they we're divorce since i was a kid .. 

ive been trying to be close to my mom 
just to fill those bondings 
but, since i didnt grew up with my mom 
we always fight and argue with some nonsense things 
coz of my pride .. 
it wasnt her fault though .. 

for a year here in canada the biggest problem i've ever got is 
a girl who we're "obsessed " with me and 
randomly made a story that shes pregnant 
it came to the point that she went to my place to talk to my mom 
but it was all lies .. 


i dont what makes me say this .. LOLOL .. i just feel like 
LOLOLahaha 

old times :)

"when i was a kid  i used to sing 




" A B C D E F G H I J K "ELEMENO P " 



#LMFAO

philosophy professor

a philosophy professor asked his student 
just 1 question for their final exam.
the question is ?? 

" how are you going to make me believe
that chair in front of you is invisible "?

it took all of the students 1 hour to finish 
writing the answer except for 1 lazy
student who only took 5 seconds.
after that day, the result are already posted. 
the lazy student got the highest mark. 
you know what's his answer .? 

" WHAT CHAiR " 


lesson: 

do not make simple things complicated :P